When parenting advice becomes too much

Parents are increasingly feeling overwhelmed by the vast amount of conflicting online parenting advice. Many report that this information overload leads to anxiety and a loss of confidence in their own intuition.
Why it matters
The digital age has created a 'parenting paradox' where access to infinite information often results in increased parental stress and burnout.
By Vanessa Clarke Education correspondent Before Rosie Whitfield became a mum, she imagined herself parenting very calm children.
"Then I had two wild boys," she says with a laugh.
Following the birth of her kids, Rosie spent hours online looking for the best advice and was drawn to one particular approach to parenting: Gentle parenting, which focuses on empathy and mutual respect with little emphasis on punishment, albeit with boundaries.
But she constantly worried her choices, from sleep schedules to handling toddler tantrums, were "ruining their lives forever".
Rosie does not blame the gentle parenting philosophy itself but instead says the overall amount of parenting advice online was "overwhelming" and "made mundane parenting choices feel like the absolute end of the world."
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