When grandma says 'yes' and mum says 'no', here's how to navigate the parenting tug-of-war

This article explores the common parenting challenges that arise when grandparents assist with childcare, specifically regarding differing views on routines and discipline. It offers advice on how parents can establish boundaries while maintaining healthy family relationships.
Why it matters
Navigating intergenerational childcare is a common modern family issue that impacts both parental stress and child development.
With many families relying on grandparents for childcare, differing views on food, discipline and routines are common. Family counsellors give tips on how parents can set limits without undermining grandparents who help with childcare.
Parents and grandparents may have different views on screen time, particularly when grandparents are helping with childcare. (Photo: iStock)
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