We were scared of living too far from our aging parents. Instead of either of us moving home, we found a compromise.
A couple shares their personal journey of choosing Vancouver as a compromise location to remain accessible to their aging parents in Australia and Alaska. The narrative highlights the challenges of expatriate life and the importance of balancing career goals with family proximity.
Why it matters
This reflects a common modern dilemma for globalized families balancing international career aspirations with the care of aging relatives.
Direct flights have made it easier to go back to our hometowns and for our parents to visit us in Vancouver, too. Courtesy of Susanna Kelly-Shankar My husband and I loved living in Munich, though his parents were in Australia and mine in Alaska. As our parents got older, we wanted visiting them to be easier, but neither of us wanted to go home. We settled on Vancouver, which offers decent flight options to where our parents reside. Alaska is a bucket-list travel destination for many. For me, it's the place I call home, but I found myself itching to leave as an adult. After years of traveling, I felt like I was changing, while my hometown stayed frozen in time. I was ready for a permanent adventure abroad, and so I set my sights on moving to Europe.
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