We built a life we love states away from our parents. Now that we're starting a family, I'm second-guessing our choice.
A personal essay explores the emotional conflict of living far from extended family while raising children in a chosen 'dream' location. The author reflects on the trade-offs between personal lifestyle preferences and the desire for intergenerational support systems.
Why it matters
The piece highlights a common modern dilemma regarding the tension between geographic mobility and the traditional need for family proximity during life transitions.
We moved away from our parents and built our dream life in Colorado. Now that we're beginning to grow our family, I'm questioning our decision. Lexi Marshall My husband and I love the life we built in Colorado, but we're far from my parents and his. We've managed the distance with trips and calls, but I'm worried about it as we grow our family. I don't want to move, but I worry about having our future kids grow up without grandparents nearby . For years, moving to Colorado felt like the easiest decision in the world. My husband and I both came here on our own, drawn by the mountains, the outdoor lifestyle, and the possibility of building a life somewhere that felt more like us. I moved to Colorado 10 years ago; he followed five years ago.
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