Timor Mortis: How We Live with Death. A clarification of what truly matters
This review explores a book by a clinical psychologist that examines the human experience of death and dying. It argues that confronting mortality helps clarify personal values like love, responsibility, and legacy.
Why it matters
The book offers a philosophical and psychological perspective on end-of-life care, which is increasingly relevant in global debates about assisted dying.
There’s something extraordinary about Chloe Aridjis’s writing in The Shadow of the Object, a quality both intoxicating and unsettling. It almost reads like an overly precise and thus mildly unheimlich translation of another’s work.
It is not a traditional medical memoir, nor is it a neat linear narrative. What makes it shine is its interdisciplinary approach and the author’s candour. Coker draws from far and wide in the pursuit of his attempt to understand what he thinks about death and dying, a subject he admits to being “obsessed with”.
He draws on medical, historical and psychological perspectives, and weaves in his clinical and personal experiences, giving a rich and expansive view, imbued with a welcome intellectual and psychological humility. The reader is offered few absolutes; instead they will likely be left more curious, more questioning.
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