My wife and I have a 30-year age gap and run a dating site together. I've been divorced 3 times — there won't be a fourth.

Brandon Wade and his wife, Dana. Courtesy of Seeking Brandon Wade met his wife on the site he founded, formerly known as Seeking Arrangements. A self-professed nerdy guy, he wanted a dating site that let him highlight his ability to provide. He was a multimillionaire when they met, but the couple doesn't have a pre-nuptial. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Brandon Wade, co-CEO of Seeking . It has been edited for length and clarity . When I met my wife, Dana, back in 2020, I wasn't in a good place. I had just celebrated my 50th birthday alone. I'd already been married and divorced three times , which was quite painful. I no longer believed in love. I was immediately attracted to Dana — with online dating , attraction is very important.