My husband and I both want to move abroad. We just can't agree on how much money we should save first.

My husband and I agree on many things, but we have different attitudes toward money and savings. Allison Lau My husband and I agree that we want to move to the Netherlands before our son starts kindergarten. However, we've had a lot of conversations and disagreements about how much money to save beforehand. My husband wants to have a lot saved before we move; I want to figure things out once we're there. Over a year ago, my husband and I sat down in the living room of the house we once thought would be our "next 30 years" home. We talked about the future and set a goal: Before our son starts kindergarten, we'll move to the Netherlands. Everyone told us parenthood would change our priorities, but living the process firsthand was still a shock.