Michael Owen doesn't tell his children he loves them - how big a deal is that?
Former footballer Michael Owen sparked a public debate after revealing he does not verbally tell his children he loves them, preferring to demonstrate affection through actions. Experts suggest that while verbal affirmation is common, the core of healthy parenting lies in making children feel secure and valued through consistent behavior.
Why it matters
The story highlights evolving societal expectations regarding parenting styles, emotional expression, and the intersection of gender and traditional masculinity.
Image source, Getty Images/elenaleonova By Henry Moore Published 11 minutes ago England football legend Michael Owen sparked debate this week after saying he "never ever" tells his children he loves them - despite them being "the most dearest things in the world" to him.
"I don't say anything like that," the father-of-four told Jamie Laing in a podcast interview. , external "I just assume my actions would show them that I love them. I think most of us are like that."
While some were surprised at Owen's comments, saying they always make sure to tell their children how they feel, other parents say they share the ex-striker's outlook.
The exchange has highlighted different attitudes around parenting, gender and culture, and raises the question - just how important are those three simple words?
Experts tell us making your child feel loved comes from more than just a simple turn of phrase.
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