In Connecticut, my husband and I mostly talked logistics. In Spain, we started dating each other again.
A couple reflects on how moving from Connecticut to Spain transformed their relationship by forcing them to slow down and prioritize connection over logistics. The change in environment helped them break free from the cycle of exhaustion and daily chores that defined their life in the US.
Why it matters
It highlights the impact of cultural environment and work-life balance on personal relationships and mental well-being.
The author and her family moved from the US to Spain. Courtesy of the author We sold our house in Connecticut and got rid of most of our belongings before moving abroad. Starting over in Spain brought plenty of stress and uncertainty. Depending on each other through it has ultimately strengthened our relationship. One year ago, my husband left his 18-year teaching career behind, we sold our house, got rid of 95% of our belongings, and moved our family from Connecticut to Madrid. These days, we live in a small flat with our 7 and 10-year-old boys. We don't own a car. We're learning Spanish one day at a time. On paper, that much upheaval could've broken us. Instead, it's brought us closer than ever. We were coexisting, not connecting Back in the US, my husband Jeff and I were coexisting more than connecting.
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