I used to travel a lot for work. It ate away at me as a parent — until I talked to my kids about it years later.
A parent reflects on the guilt she felt while traveling frequently for a demanding job when her children were young. She concludes that the long-term impact on her children was minimal and advises other parents to evaluate work-life balance over longer periods.
Why it matters
It addresses the common struggle of balancing high-pressure careers with parenting, offering a perspective on long-term parental guilt.
For several years, I traveled across the country every third week for work. Being away from my young kids was hard for me as a parent, but my now-teenagers don't even remember it. Liz Zack I took a dream job that required me to travel across the country to Denver every third week. As much as I enjoyed the work, being away from my young kids every month ate away at me as a parent. Years later, my kids don't remember this time in our lives. I shouldn't have been so hard on myself. A few years ago, I landed my dream job . I was asked to lead the content team for an amazing brand and reinvent its look and feel, all while working with a ton of inspiring, creative people. It was the kind of job I told people about, and their jaws dropped.
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