I didn't post on social media about my home purchase, marriage, or pregnancy. It made the moments more meaningful.

The author, shown with her husband and their child, chose not to post about big life milestones on social media. Courtesy of Renate Flanagan. I always felt special when my friends told me about big news before they posted it on social media. When it came time for me to share some milestones, I chose to do it in person or over the phone. For me, getting a hug is way better than getting likes on a post. Years ago, I got a call from a friend . "The most amazing thing happened," she gushed, "we got engaged!" She proceeded to tell me about how her boyfriend proposed. They're such a loving and compatible couple, I couldn't have been happier for them.