Dating Files: A 40-year-old who’s tired of being judged on his ethnicity

A 40-year-old financial consultant in New Zealand shares his experiences and frustrations with the modern dating scene. He expresses difficulty finding partners in his age group who share his lifestyle preferences.
Why it matters
This personal account reflects broader social trends regarding the challenges of finding long-term companionship in middle age through digital platforms.
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The content is a personal lifestyle narrative with no political or ideological agenda.
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